For Those Who Didn’t Come Home

I’m one of the lucky ones. Mine came home, my husband, my two sons, my grandson. The U.S. Air Force, Army and Navy all sent my men home. Thank you.

On Monday, the U.S.A. remembers those who didn’t come home. From the Civil War over 150 years ago, to the war on terrorism and just a few months ago, we have given our best and bravest to secure our freedoms.

The day to honor their sacrifice is Memorial Day on Monday. 

Yes, this three-day weekend kicks off the summer season, with vacations, family gatherings, and all sorts of summer activities.

I wrestle with words to honor them, and decide mine are insufficient.

Gen. Ellen Pawlikowski of Wright-Patterson Air Force Base in Dayton, Ohio, offered the following this week:

“As we spend time with friends and family, let us be reminded of the most important meaning of this day.

“Established in 1868, Memorial Day was a day set aside to honor those lost in the Civil War. But many wars have gripped our nation since and many lives have been lost. I ask that you pause to honor the fallen Americans who served and died for their country. These brave men and women made the selfless choice to put service before self to protect our freedoms.

“History is full of stories of service members who displayed exceptional valor. From World War I to today's engagement against terrorism, men and women have served with courage and honor. But many did not return to their homes and families. More than a million American Soldiers, Sailors, Coast Guardsmen, Marines and Airmen made the ultimate sacrifice defending our country.

“We can never repay these courageous patriots who gave so much to protect our way of life, but we can use Memorial Day to honor them. And let us not forget to remember the families of the fallen -- spouses, sons, daughters, mothers and fathers. They too have sacrificed.

“Our fallen warriors deserve our deepest gratitude and remembrance. Their sacrifices must never be forgotten.”

Their sacrifices and they must never be forgotten.

Please, take a few moments on Monday and remember you are free, and how you remain that way. If you are able, perhaps take an hour or two to attend a Memorial Day service. The service at Sallisaw Cemetery is at 11 a.m. Monday. Then take a few minutes to walk among the headstones. The markers for those killed in conflict are often simple, old and easy to see. Stop by and say “Thank you.”

We’re sure you will be heard.